the 10 reasons why husbands don't open up to their wives.

1. Most men feel like failures: Immersed in a culture that judges them solely by how much money they have and how professionally successful they are

2. Men feel emasculated: Because men, by the middle of their lives, mostly feel like their professional dreams have been crushed

3. Men are trained not to feel: Men are successful professionally specifically by burying, rather than expressing, their emotions.

4. Men feel that they have to be providers: Men don't think that what their wives want from them is feelings.

5. Men put action before emotion: Men, in their friendships with each other, almost never talk.

6. Men focus on subjects they can master: Studies show that there are five subjects that men discuss.