Invisible Work
Because
no one could ever praise me enough,
because
I don't mean these poems only
but
the unseen
unbelievable
effort it takes to live
the
life that goes on between them,
I
think all the time about invisible work.
About
the young mother on Welfare
I
interviewed years ago,
who
said, "It's hard.
You
bring him to the park,
run
rings around yourself keeping him safe,
cut
hot dogs into bite-sized pieces for dinner,
and
there's no one
to say what a good job you're doing,
how
you were patient and loving
for
the thousandth time even though you had a
headache."
And
I, who am used to feeling sorry for myself
because
I am lonely,
when
all the while,
as
the Chippewa poem says, I am being carried
by
great winds across the sky,
thought
of the invisible work that stitches up the
world
day and night,
the slow, unglamorous work of healing,