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It's not just talk

It's gestures, stance, eye movement

Notice how you lean forward to the person

you're talking to and tip up your heels?

Notice the quick little eyebrow raise you make,

the sidelong glance coupled with

the weak smile you give

Contrary to widespread belief, only two very specific types of people flirt: those who are single and those who are married.
before you claim, whether single or married, that you never flirt, bear in mind that it's not just talk we're dealing with here. It's gestures, stance, eye movement.

If you're a woman, do you feel your head tilting to the side a bit, exposing either your soft, sensuous neck or, looking at it another way, your jugular?

If you're a guy, are you keeping your body in an open, come-on-attack-me position, arms positioned to draw the eye to your impressive lower abdomen?

Sexual Cues
Flirting Maneuvers
It's the Game We Play

we learn a script for talking to the opposite sex.

"We often enact these scripts without even thinking,"