She explained that she loved her husband but was not in love with him and said she was bitter that she'd probably stay trapped in her passionless marriage for the rest of her life.

people “always know they're gay,” though they may sometimes suppress it. Fleisher said that's not always the case, and pointed out that some of Oprah's interviewees said they didn't know until they were older. She explained that some women don't get to know their true sexuality until they get to know themselves better, as they mature.

What's even more curious is that Oprah can accept that there's a continuum of sexuality but finds it harder to believe that there can likewise be a continuum of coming out experiences

Nikki also said that staying in your marriage when it doesn't feel right doesn't do anybody any favors.

Whatever your secret, live your own truth; life is too short