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Many of us celebrate Christmas alone. This may be the first time for us, or an odd set of circumstances this year, or an every year thing.

For us who are alone, Christmas can be a great blessing. The solitude we have can offer us the grace to receive the gift of Christ's coming in a very special way. We may be tempted to be discouraged or quite down in our aloneness, but that really is a temptation. It is a temptation to turn our focus in on ourselves rather that to let ourselves be contemplative at the time of Christmas. To act against this temptation is to open ourselves to great graces these days.

The first grace we might have is time.

The second great grace we might be given is the ability to enter into relationships with these special persons in the story of our salvation.

Perhaps the greatest grace of our aloneness will be the gift of grateful surrender.