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Beyond borders
Rumina Sethi


PURITANISM does not allow us to talk about the subject of same sex love in a country where homosexuality is often blamed on "foreign invaders". Yet, the shastras are replete with instances of celebration of same-sex pairs, be they twins, sisters, co-mothers, rivers or friends. Few of us know that Agni, to whom most of the hymns of the Rig Veda are dedicated, is born of two sticks which are its two mothers. In the Jataka tales, there always exists an intimate relationship between boys or monks who are without fear of betrayal or infidelity. That love between women was cherished is clear from the concept of swyamvara sakhi in the 11th-century Kathasaritsagara.

Our 2000 years’ literature also contains many instances of sex change where men-turned-women marry men, exhibiting the innate attraction that exists between the same species. King Ila of the Matsya Purana is turned by Shiva into a woman who then marries Budha, the son of the moon.