For May’s U.K. issue of Elle, the still-sexy singer Madonna chats candidly about her kids, her sex life and her tempestuous marriage to Guy Ritchie.

I had to marry someone as tough as me. Guy’s definitely tough. He doesn’t give in and our sex life is amazing. I had to marry a challenge, otherwise I would just get bored. Whatever else Guy is, he’s never boring.

Guy and I lie right next to each other with our BlackBerrys under our pillows. It’s not unromantic, it’s practical. I’m sure loads of couples have their BlackBerrys in bed with them. I often wake up in the middle of the night and remember that I’ve forgotten something, so I jump up and make notes!

Overall, it seems Madonna is not romantic though. If you are for a more romantic woman, don’t go away, check out Adriana Lima’s dating rules or Jessica Alba dating tips.